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How to express yourself to others?
Do you know how to express your emotions? How to express yourself to others?
Often people say to others “talk so I get to know you” or “express yourself” You might want to express your love to someone in your life like your parents, children, or partner, but don’t know how.
Jennifer mentions that she wishes to express her love to her mother, but whenever she goes to talk to her, she finds that she can’t express her emotions.
Kelly also just like Jennifer, despite her love for her husband, she feels that doesn’t give him what he deserves and doesn’t express her love for him.
Are you like Jennifer and Kelly? Can you express your emotions to the people you love or you can’t?
To learn how to express yourself to others, then follow the quick guide below:
1. Focus on others
Instead of focusing on your emotions, start focusing on the message that you want to give to the other person. Often people focus on themselves and in the process, miss-communicate the message that they want to express.
2. Use simple language
When you express yourself, use simple words. If you try to use complicated statements, then the other individual might misunderstand what you are trying to say. Also, don’t forget that simple words get to people’s hearts easier and faster, so it is always better to express yourself using simple language.
3. Choose the right time
When you want to express yourself and how you feel, make sure you choose the right time. For example, if you want to express your love for your partner, make sure your partner is in a good mood and mentally and physically relaxed. If you choose the wrong timing like when your partner is tired, then your mate might not respond the way you want him to respond.
4. Use your body language
Use your body language to express what you want to say. Your words have to compliment your body language. For instance, to express your love to your partner when the features of your face show anger doesn’t help. Your facial expressions and body gestures should match what you are trying to express.
5. Show affection
When you want to express yourself, you should show affection. When you show love and affection, others will be more likely to appreciate what you have to say.